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To be or not to be a victim? – part 4

As a rule, the main position of victims is a attempt to hide the blame of all problems behind people around them. “Life is unfair and an unwillingness” – this is very advantageous for the internal feelings of a man.

What should I do? If people did not want to play the role of “victim”, they can not “throw”. It’s just not part of those rules by which he lives.

Goodbye – is a part of our lives, and sometimes we can not influence on decision of the second half to leave or to connect his life with another person. We independently choose how to react on separation. Say to yourself: “I am not a victim!”. And you’ll realize then that your paths just gone, as is the case with the bus, and that everybody are now on his way. We will always need to remember that you surely will have the next step, the next bus and the next meeting.

To be or not to be a victim? – part 3

Man is a victim:

If man threw a girlfriend, it’s always turns into a foolish and hysterical speaking, he is like a young lady of easy virtue.
If a man begins to drink alcohol, it’s grief. Ears to drain the experiences are boon companions. Still possible to arrange dismantling for the new young man, as you can to make it for ex-girlfriend. Due to the fact that the brain is upset by the suffering and alcohol abuse, the victim is no longer responsible for it’s actions and their consequences. They are to blame “them”, that’s they should be punished. In the name of justice, as well as great love there are a lot of fights, murder, stabbing. Many of the male “victims” who murdered his ex-women, are imprisoned. Men of the victims become the persecutors, and then vice versa.

To be or not to be a victim? – part 2

A female victim:She is depressed, has unhappy eyes, stooped shoulders, and of course, a lot of tears. All this state is accompanied by the following thoughts: “He left me for some another, left me, left the child and destroyed his family. He’s just a scoundrel! “.

Similarly, a victim of trying to find a savior who will support her, listen to and confirm that her ex-boyfriend is  a beast.For the victims of this hobby, more importantly, to find free ears. But, nevertheless, “savior” will not be able to save the victim from her suffering, because she will not allow it. If you advise the victim to leave everything in the past and build their lives happily and joyfully, then you must be accused of callousness and lack of understanding and join the list of “persecutors.”Usually, women are very cleverly able to play the role of a victim of circumstances and treacherous men. Probably because they are from childhood reading romance novels, watching serials, where the main character, usually the victim. This role is eventually absorbed and as soon as the need to turn on.

To be or not to be a victim? – part 1

Very often women are blamed for men is that they leave the family for the sake of the young and beautiful. Men, in turn, complain that the girls go to the richer or romantic men. All claim that they were abandoned. Let’s see how it actually is.

Imagine this: you are in the bus, using his soft seats, convenience, security and warmth. A Bus is iron and big, and most importantly – goes wherever you want. You bought a ticket for it. Full agreement. But you got to the desired location, got out and went home. A bus went on its way. You go home and know that tomorrow will be another bus, but thanks to this that drove. And the bus my way, it can have many passengers. No one has a claim, all well. Why do people have so many claims to each other when someone leaves? Why the remaining considers himself a victim?

Men’s haircut tells about his treason.

Of course, women are interested in the exterior of men. At the same time they pay attention to many factors, including clothing and hairstyle. But then, as cut and arranged his hair as the owner, says a lot about its owner.

In particular, due to shearing, we can learn how to be faithful to his beloved one or the other man.

Most often, according to experts, making treason the men with short hair.

If the owner of the hair is long sloppy bangs and short hair on the sides, it talks about the selfishness of men. It will not be interested in the feelings of his girlfriend.

But the most faithful partner in life can be regarded as the stronger half of humanity with an average length hair parted on the side. They will not forgive his fiancee treason, but themselves will nеver be unfaithful .

Cavaliers with long hair are sympathetic, kind, reliable and responsible.